In consideration of a book I’ve read on the four elements as they apply to astrology and psychology, I started considering the various ways that certain zodiac sign energies are apt to express their love. Let me start by reiterating the basics of how a certain element (earth, air, fire, or water) is likely to express love/affection in general, and then I’ll briefly zone in on the specific signs.

Fire: shows love through grand gestures
Water: shows love through subtle empathy and emotional connection
Air: shows love through words and ideas
Earth: shows love through tangible commitments

Additionally, before exploring the love styles in detail for each sign, I’ve seen a connective pattern through the signs related to which quadrant they fall in, which indicates a prominent focus on either ME, YOU, US, or ALL, where the mutable signs refine and adjust towards developing the orientation that approaches with the next cardinality. Again, I’ll give a snapshot for each sign before working this into a more detailed exposition.

ME=quadrant 1:
Aries-oriented to focus upon one’s personal desires, actions, identity, and direction intrinsic to their world, sometimes at the expense of another or consideration to a partnership
Taurus-oriented to focus upon one’s personal resources, skills, sustainment, and sensual satisfaction among the world, sometimes to the expense of another or consideration to a partnership
Gemini-oriented to focus on one’s personal knowledge, intellect, expression, and communication in the world, but beginning to focus on the same traits in another person from which they may continue to advance their own, sometimes to the expense, or over-indulgence, of another or consideration to a partnership

YOU=quadrant 2:
Cancer-oriented to ensuring that another feels good, loved, safe, cared for, and nurtured, sometimes at expense of what’s needed by everyone collectively, inclusive also of themselves.
Leo-oriented to inspiring another feel to special, happy, fun, creatively appreciated, and important, sometimes to the expense of collective enjoyment, inclusive also of themselves.
Virgo-oriented to serving another by running errands, keeping things cleaned and organized, doing chores, and managing daily tasks, but beginning to focus on how to harmonize and balance all duties and responsibilities within a partnership, sometimes to the expense, or over-indulgence, of serving the collective, inclusive of themselves

US=quadrant 3:
Libra-oriented to considering the perspectives of both parties in a relationship in order to compromise towards the most pleasing outcome for both partners individually and as a whole, sometimes to the expense and exclusion of themselves personally or the world at large beyond the partnership.
Scorpio-oriented to considering the skills, traits, and resources of both parties in a relationship in order to merge assets towards creating something better and more potent working through the partnership expressed together as a whole, sometimes to the expense and exclusion to themselves personally or the world at large beyond the partnership
Sagittarius-oriented to considering the beliefs, philosophies, and attitudes of both parties in a relationship in order to synthesize and expand a broader vantage point of truth inclusive of both perspectives, but beginning to focus on how these fused viewpoints can expand further through relating to other more collectively universal beliefs, philosophies, etc., sometimes to the expense, or over-indulgence, of themselves personally or the world at large beyond the partnership

ALL=quadrant 4:
Capricorn-oriented toward acting in such a way so as to make a prominent mark, or be of prominent status, according to general collective standards of the world, sometimes to the expense and exclusion of how it may directly affect another individual specifically or an existing partnership
Aquarius-oriented towards collaborating in order to achieve progressively collective general liberation for the world, sometimes to the expense or exclusion for how it directly affects another individual specifically or an existing partnership
Pisces-oriented toward emotional sensitivity to collective concerns in such a way so as to devote selfless energy towards compassionately alleviating the existential sufferings of the world, but beginning to focus on how easing the collective suffering also reflects a path towards relieving their own personal sense of suffering, sometimes to the expense, or over-indulgence, of how it may directly affect another individual specifically or an existing partnership

Now, while putting the connotation of the element and quadrant together in consideration of the individual nature of each sign, let’s look more specifically at how each sign’s particular energy signature would modify these generalities:

Aries’s fire shows love through the gestures, actions, and activities done with another. Since this energy usually likes to stay driven towards meeting their own personal desires, love can often be equated with doing what someone else wants to do, letting them choose the direction. This concession for the other is part of the Libra polarity. Another way things happen could be for an Aries’ energy to initiate an activity which they feel propelled to enjoy themselves, while also inviting and including a loved one in on the activity so that they might also enjoy the sought for stimulation and excitement. In a crisis, they will readily put themselves into action on behalf of another in peril. In degradation, this energy’s approach can lead to frustration for all the activities and events done with (and for) the other person if other attitudes aren’t blended harmonically. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Libra polarity, which understands the value of shared experience, cooperation, and growth experienced through the reflection of another. The quadrant 1 orientation of Aries to ME, must remember and work towards reconciliation with the quadrant 3 orientation of Libra to US. In such a way, they can realize the ways in which participating together with someone leads to further self- understanding.

Taurus’s earth shows love through the access to their resources, and the commitment of them to a loved one’s care. Their energy is prone to amass a good stockpile of sustenance, and have cultivated a particular skill, so love can be equated with putting their wealth of development to the use of a loved one. This sharing of resources reflects the Scorpio polarity. Another way things happen could be for a Taurus’ energy to further develop themselves and their resources so as to stand still as a stable security source that protectively guarded their loved one’s interest. In a crisis, they will readily overly extend and diminish their own resources on the behalf of another in peril. In degradation, this energy’s approach can lead to frustration for all the ways in which their money and resources were put to work for another person’s purposes if other attitudes aren’t blended harmonically. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Scorpio polarity, which understand the nature and value of shared resources, transcending one’s personal limitations by merging with anther, and the transformative growth that occurs by letting go of what’s “ours” to build up another, whom one is functioning in connection with . The quadrant 1 orientation of Taurus to ME, must remember and work towards reconciliation with the quadrant 3 orientation of Scorpio to US. In such a way, they can realize the ways in which their being able to merge their sources/skills together with another are able to lead towards a transformed capacity to go about developing themselves.

Gemini’s air shows love through the ideas and communicative expression they share with a loved one. They may share a wealth of facts and opinions with a loved one to expose them to the rich variety of information and perspectives possible of existing. This willingness to enlarge one’s scope of knowledge suggests part of the Sagittarius polarity. Another way things happen could be for a Gemini’s energy to reduce problems to superficial or humorous anecdotes, or even arrange intellectual arguments that actively oppose a loved one’s problems by rallying in the opposite direction. In a crisis, they will readily use their sleight of hand and tongue to work a loved one through their issue, sometimes at another’s expense (conversationally or circumstantially), if no objective harm to self, or the object of love, seems evident. In degradation, the methods employed to assist a loved one could become rather carelessly pragmatic, causing unethical injury to others or unintentional problems for one’s love or oneself. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Sagittarius polarity, which understands the connective big picture that links all things (people/cultures/causes/beliefs) together, focusing on the moral, spiritual, and philosophical higher ground. The quadrant 1 orientation of Gemini to ME, must remember and work towards reconciliation with the quadrant 3 orientation of Sagittarius to US. In such a way, they can discover how the commonalities and shared terrain understood among themselves and others can actually allow them to communicate more meaningfully overall, while also focusing their search for information and knowledge upon more holistically inclusive viewpoints; this all helps expedite the extent of what they can make sense enough of to assimilate into their working knowledge-base for use and dispersal .

Cancer’s water shows love through the emotional nurturing they provide for a loved one. They will devote themselves to meeting whatever needs of a loved one they are capable of doing so, especially those dealing with feelings and emotions. This ambition to provide and sustain another’s essential needs with steadfast devotion suggests part of the Capricorn polarity. Another way things could happen could be for a Cancer’s energy to create an emotional rapport with another that allows them to feel safe, accepted, loved, and cared for like family. In a crisis, they may invite a loved one into the safety of their nest, providing a wealth of comfort to soothe any ailing situation they might be in. In degradation, this energy’s approach can, if not blended with other attitudes harmonically, “hold on” to a loved one too much, enabling them to continue staying helpless and dependent on their loving care, so that the object of their affection becomes unable or unwilling to enact the proper effort to care for themselves. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Capricorn polarity, which understands the importance of structure, boundaries, ambition, and hard work necessary in order to achieve the satisfaction of self-attainment recognized by the world. The quadrant 2 orientation of Cancer to YOU, must remember and work towards reconciliation with the quadrant 4 orientation of Capricorn to ALL. In such a way, they can realize the ways in which keeping oneself disciplined towards a goal, and overcoming the hardships and obstacles present along the way, is what will allow one to feel truly “at home” in the world and able to sufficiently care for themselves and others.

Leo’s fire shows love through the dramatically romantic attention they bestow upon, and the fun and pleasure they provide, another. They will do, say, act, and otherwise express a passion towards a loved one designed to make them feel absolutely adored and special, surprise them with gifts and pleasurable experiences, and parade them to their various “audiences” as a king or queen. This celebration of their unique individuality, tendency to shock them with big thrills, and open acceptance of them showcased to their favored few, all suggests the Aquarius polarity. Another way things could happen could be for a Leo’s energy to radiate the specialness of themselves, lavishing their own precious attention upon their love interest, particularly attention that promotes their own creativity too as well, such as using a loved one to inspire a painting, song, etc. In a crisis, they can make a fierce display of their passion in such a way so as to either capture the loving adoration of their audience or intimidate another with the projected heat of their power. In degradation, if other energy’s aren’t mediating, this energy’s approach is prone to overdo itself, and can lead to either bestowing attentions that come across a little “over the top” and excessively flattering, sometimes seeming insincere and repelling one instead of attracting, or regarding itself with an overly-inflated sense of importance, which can again be off-putting or inaccurate about its grandiosity. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Aquarius polarity, which understands the need to be detached, objective, and reasonably sound with its assertions, as well as the need to sometimes concede the uniqueness of one’s individual role in order to simply participate as an equal part of the group. The quadrant 2 orientation of Leo to YOU, must remember and work towards reconciliation with the quadrant 4 orientation of Aquarius to ALL. In such a way, they can realize how the ways in which intellectually focusing on what’s most progressively beneficial concerning the needs of everyone as equals first will then allow a better, more objectively accurate, approach to be taken towards embodying or appreciating their own, or their loved one’s, special brand of creativity and fun.

Virgo’s earth shows love through the regular tasks they complete on behalf of another as an act of service to help improve another’s circumstances. They will use their skills and energy to help defray some of the necessary work that their loved one must do, especially with such tasks as cleaning, errands, organizing, accounting, etc. This compassionate sense of service which they provide so selflessly for another suggests the Pieces polarity. Another way things could happen could be for a Virgo’s energy to work towards helping a loved one to make and maintain practical improvements to their life, such as assistance with diet/health, learning to work better, or understanding the finer details of some matter. In a crisis, they can work to the extreme by taking over all the completion of all the duties that another person should be responsible for themselves, which can be overly taxing. In degradation if other energies aren’t mediating, this energy’s approach can become overly critical, taking on their loved one’s work because they don’t feel their loved one can complete it as adequately, with proper attention to detail. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Pisces polarity, which understands how to go with the flow and compassionately love another despite any perceived shortcomings or inadequacies. The quadrant 2 orientation of Virgo to YOU, must remember and work towards reconciliation with the quadrant 4 orientation of Pisces to ALL. In such a way, they can realize how the compassion towards commonalities among the suffering inherent behind the human condition will allow them to be gentler about the ways they go about helping a loved one to make practical improvements.

Libra’s air shows love through their ability to listen and provide sound, rational counsel for a loved one, helping them to find the appropriate balance regarding any tumultuous situation. They will devotedly involve themselves with their loved one in any way that can help to harmonize their perceived needs. This active use of themselves and their personal energy suggests the Aries polarity. Another way things could happen could be for Libra’s energy to simply reflect back to a loved one anything that’s shared, giving them a chance to examine it rationally from an external point of view. In a crisis, they can be extremely conceding to the needs of the other, becoming as pleasing as possible to secure the strength of the union. In degradation if other energies aren’t mediating, they may seek to avoid any sort of confrontation whatsoever, preferring to present a sense of peace regardless of any more complicated contrast that may be present. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Aries polarity, which understands the importance of being true to one’s self and meeting one’s own needs in order to be truly fulfilled. The quadrant 3 orientation of Libra to US, must remember and work towards reconciliation with the quadrant 1 orientation of Aries to ME. In such a way, they can realize how their own personal desires are an inherent part of what will ultimately allow them to stand secure enough in themselves to be secure enough as an individual to genuinely offer support to another in relationship.

Scorpio’s water shows love through their ability to emotionally merge with another person in such a way so as to anticipate and fulfill their every need, especially in troubled times, while also helping them to psychologically understand their position. They will usually be more than willing to unquestioning share what is theirs with their loved one, while expecting the same in return. This use of their own developed resources suggests the Taurus polarity. Another way things could happen could be for a Scorpio energy to freely offer their own penetrating insight into emotional situations that can help to empower the other person by eliminating imposed limitations and enabling a positive transformation to take place. In a crisis, they are capable of remaining intensely connected to a loved one so as to stick by their side through any heavy situation, even one of danger which other more timid energies might shy away from. In this way, Scorpio’s energy is able to solidify an emotional bond that transforms the depth of one’s soul appreciation. In degradation, if other energies aren’t mediating, this energy’s approach can become too entangled, creating power struggles with another over perceived slights, secret withholdings, or unreciprocated acts. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard of the Taurus polarity, which understands the serenity of being firmly self-sufficient, without dependence on another to the point that their behavior could determine or jeopardize one’s own personal security. The quadrant 3 orientation of Scorpio to US, must remember and work towards reconciliation with the quadrant 1 orientation of Taurus to ME. In such a way, they can realize how a prioritized focus on one’s own well-being and developed resources first is what enables the sharing of those things with others to be done without too much emphasis being made on the union to the exclusion of the individual.

Sagittarius’ fire shows love through their ability to optimistically inspire others through exploration of the grand vision of life. They will usually enjoy exposing their loved ones to new experiences and philosophies that help to expand the limits of their world. This tendency to present an exciting variety of new information and activity suggests the Gemini polarity. Another way things could happen could be for a Sagittarius energy to help a loved one to see the silver lining in any troubling situation, by shining a light on the bigger picture and offering a philosophical framework that helps provide understanding while putting things into a larger perspective. In a crisis, they can help encourage another to experience the joy and bounty of life in fresh new ways rather than continuing to dwell in some stagnant negativity. In degradation, this pursuit of “greener grass” may only serve as an escape from facing the facts, leading into more heartache once the realization of what’s been avoided is noticed. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Gemini polarity, which understands the importance of gathering all the information and looking at both sides so as to not overlook any possibly contrasting perspectives that could make a prominent impact. The quadrant 3 orientation of Sagittarius to US, must remember and work towards reconciliation with the quadrant 1 orientation of Gemini to ME. In such a way, they can realize how personal examination of all the variety of dimensions that exist in any given situation is necessary to ensure that an aim and direction can be taken towards the highest good in consideration of the mutually active facets that exist within a relationship.

Capricorn’s earth shows love through the commitments they make towards achievements made on behalf of a loved one. They will put in much hard work and dedication to ensure that they can be a pillar of strength for their love, working on projects and accomplishments that are meaningful to them. This sense of nurturing and caring for the interests of another suggests the Cancer polarity. Another way things could happen may be that they may also put a lot of time and effort into their own personal attainment so that they may accrue a sense of importance and position in the world that will allow them to act as a source of power for their loved one. In a crisis, Capricorn’s energy can be relentlessly enduring when it comes to helping a loved one to climb past their obstacles and limitations. In degradation, if other energies don’t mediate, they may become so ambitious towards accumulating such power and prestige that they neglect to take the time to see if their loved one is truly made happier through their efforts. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Cancer polarity, which understands the importance of emotional nurturing and being sensitively responsive to another’s true inner needs. The quadrant 4 orientation of Capricorn to ALL, must remember and work towards reconciliation of the quadrant 2 orientation of Cancer to YOU. In such a way, they can realize that their working to truly understand the core needs of another will truly help them to figure out the best way to go about making an impact in the world at large that will also be in support of the others’ needs.

Aquarius’ air shows love through intellectually working out objective solutions for the problems a loved one may face along the road to progressively meet their goals. They may provide an individual focus to help one find a unique innovative way to understand a predicament. This sense of giving special consideration and attention to a loved one suggests the Leo polarity. Another way things could happen could be that they help their loved one to detach from the personal and subjective dimensions of some dilemma so as to understand it from a more logical standpoint. In a crisis, Aquarius energy will construct a mental framework that focuses on ensuring that a loved one’s position is soundly “correct,” accordingly to thoughtful intellectualization, even if it may seem unusual , unconventional or unorthodox. In degradation, if other energies don’t mediate, they may become overly intellectual about the issues of their loved one, and even explosively erratic about their final conclusions, despite possibly getting so wrapped up in the issue that they completely abandon the personal dimension connected to their loved one in the first place. This is especially true if there’s deficient regard to an awareness of the Leo polarity, which understands the importance of making a loved one the special focus of their attention, regardless of how things may logically/rationally make sense or not. The quadrant 4 orientation of Aquarius to ALL, must remember and work towards reconciliation of the quadrant 2 orientation of Leo to YOU. In such a way, staying objectively clear about their loved one’s position and genuine needs, as opposed to idealizing a position and then advocating its existence, will help to ensure that the role they take in response will also be appropriate for everyone involved, including their love.

Pisces’ water shows love through compassionately pouring forth unconditional love to soothe any pain and suffering a loved one may experience. They may selflessly serve another’s needs, taking time to figure out what they may feel that they lack so as to help provide the missing pieces. This work rendered to help another “get themselves together” suggests the Virgo polarity. Another way things could happen could be for the Pisces energy to unconsciously absorb and personalize the projected feelings of pain and suffering that another is going through in effort to help ease them of the perceived burden of going through such ordeals alone. In a crisis, Pisces energy can help one to transcend their personal pain by advocating a spiritual perspective that puts it into a broader context of life in which all pain becomes seen as universally meaningful for our spiritual development and growth. In degradation if other energies don’t mediate, they may merely only assist a loved one in addictively escaping from their pain by leading them away from any dealings with the harshness of actual reality in favor of “spiritual loopholes.” This is especially true if there’s a deficient regard to an awareness of the Virgo polarity, which understands the importance of keeping the details of one’s life in order, purifying imperfections instead of simply trying to evade them through negated denial. The quadrant 4 orientation of Pisces to ALL, must remember and work towards reconciliation of the quadrant 2 orientation of Virgo to YOU. In such a way, focusing compassionate care towards the areas of another’s life that could use some fine-tuning adjustments can help to ensure that a collective sense of well-being for everyone continues to increase despite the ways in which we may all suffer by the way in which we seem to individually fall behind on occasion.